Alana Cassidy

Alana Cassidy

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Coffee, Cake & Kink founder - it says it all :)

See below for the basics, more in:
Why did I start Coffee, Cake & Kink?

Questions we asked:


I take my coffee.... black with no sugar, preferably brewed in the French Press.


If I was a dessert, I would be a carmel slice - soft with some crunch!

Kinks: Interests, Quirks or Peculiarities

I am all kinky - I haven't done many "straight" things in life! I am dyslexic and don't think straight, for starters, I go from A to Z to K. Being transgender, I challenge people with my appearance, relationships and very existence..

What attracted you to Coffee, Cake & Kink? (Why CCK?)

I started it :) It's an extension of me, and the 3 things I like most in life, and the values I believe in.

What were you doing before you joined us?

Immediately before it, I was in publishing - running an online lifestyle magazine, (everybody has a fetish - whatyours?) and publishing London Fetish Maps. A far cry from the Royal Navy, which was my first career choice back in 1985!

What's your favourite way to wake up and what's the first thing you do?

I like to wake up slowly, preferably with nature saying hi in some way (the sun shining through the window, or the sound of rain). If I also have my partner by my side or the cat curling up at my feet (or both :) that makes for a perfect start to the day.

What's your favourite thing to do on a Saturday night?

Have a nice dinner with friends or watch a movie.

What's in your wardrobe?

Patent leather black high boots. Four inch red stilettos given to me by Graham Norton. Short dresses and tight trousers, lots..

What are you reading right now?

Jane Austin's "Pride and Prejudice".

What was the last thing you ate that you really shouldn't?

The most sinful chocolote fudgecake - 2 slices of it, as once I started one simply wasn't going to be enough!

What is stashed under your bed/mattress?

My sailing gear. My skiiing gear. My... other gear :)

Have you got any bad habits? :)

Going to bed without taking my make-up off (or leaving black smudges all over my towels when I do rememeber!). Sweet and sour chicken at Wong Keis (London China Town, as in the Warren Zevon's 1978 song, "Warewolves of London").

Your "Bucket list" : Five things you want to do in life?

  • Drive down Route 66 (preferably in a big rig).
  • See The Great Wall of China.
  • Walk the Inca trail (Mayan Temples).
  • Go white water rafting down the Colorado River.
  • Go to space.